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The Alpha Male

<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-sbxebCkZQ5g/Vaa7ROd4v1I/AAAAAAAAAIg/3Jd8gX4-0T4/s1600/%253D%253Futf-8%253FB%253FYWxwaGFtYWxlLmpwZw%253D%253D%253F%253D-774748"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_6171826243973463890" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-sbxebCkZQ5g/Vaa7ROd4v1I/AAAAAAAAAIg/3Jd8gX4-0T4/s320/%253D%253Futf-8%253FB%253FYWxwaGFtYWxlLmpwZw%253D%253D%253F%253D-774748" /></a>30 Characteristics of a Real Man30 is the number of Manhood. At 30, a man should atleast attain this standard by merit not by trial. The Alpha Male, the real man, a man's man, a warrior, a stand-up guy. It doesn't matter what you call him, he's a leader, the guy others look to for motivation, inspiration, and often with a hint of jealousy. He's the man women want, without intention the center of attention.He's the guy, the man.Here's 30 characteristics that make a man the alpha. Leave your additions (or subtractions) in the comments section.#1. The alpha male is persistent. There's no quit in this man. He's the tortoise not the hare. He's the last man standing.#2. The alpha male can defend himself and his family. He can handle himself with his fists, to put it another way.#3. The alpha male is in peak physical shape. He's strong and athletic as well as aesthetically pleasing to the opposite sex.If you need help in this area, seek fitness advice.#4. The alpha male is courageous. He doesn't lack fear, rather, he accepts that it exists and faces it at every opportunity.#5. The alpha male can entertain. He has a sense of humor and can have a group of people hanging on his every word – he's a good story teller.#6. The alpha male has stories to tell. He's lived – and is living – a unique life. He's made mistakes, but he's able to find humor in them. He's had adventures that everyone wants to hear about.#7. The alpha male can laugh at himself. This is an over-looked characteristic of an alpha male, but a necessary one. You can't make fun of the alpha male because he'll join in, no one can make fun of him better than he can.#8. The alpha male is humble. Some of this comes from his ability to laugh at himself. No matter what he accomplishes, his head will never balloon, and if it does, he has the ware-with-all to come back down to earth before it gets out of hand.#9. The alpha male is learned, educated. A degree isn't a prerequisite, but a thirst for knowledge is. He wants to learn, and he does. This helps him relate to people from every social and economic standing. He can converse intelligently with the business man and the preacher. The history buff and the sports nut.#10. The alpha male is a man's man. He's a hard guy not to like or want to have a beer with. He's tough, often quiet, composed, but can joke and shoot the shit with anyone.#11. The alpha male knows the value of every word, he doesn't talk simply to hear the sound of his own voice. His words are chosen carefully. He respects their power. Whether he's writing or speaking, he doesn't speak to be hear, he speaks when he has something of value to say. He's never the loudest one in the room.#12. The alpha male has a purpose. This may be his most defining trait. Where many wander through life trying to find their Self, the alpha male is too busy creating his Self. Every day he does something to bring himself closer to his goal. He isn't a wanderer, he's going places; it's so obvious that everyone around him can see it.#13. The alpha male is a hard worker. He knows that nothing great is accomplished without hard work and a definite purpose.#14. The alpha male is a warrior not a worrier. He understands that cetain things aren't under his control. He does everything he can to control what hecan, but doesn't worry about what he can't. He's not worried about tomorrow, he's too busy working for today.#15. The alpha male doesn't pick a fight, but he ends it if he's in one. He isn't a bully. He isn't an emotional wreck that looks for a fight at every corner. But, if the logical thing to do is to fight because the situation calls for it, he will. He'll also never hit a man when he's down. He isn't fighting to destroy, but to defend.#16. The alpha male has style. He takes pride in how he looks and people respect him for that. He also knows how to dress like a man. You'd never call the alpha male a metrosexual.#17. The alpha male knows who he is, his values govern his life. He doesn't stray from these values, in fact he stands up for them. Even when he stands alone in what he believes is right, he digs his heels in and fights. #18. The alpha male knows how to treat a lady. He respects women, often because he's had some great one's in his life. He's chivalrous. He helps his lady at every chance. He helps her reach her dreams, all-the-while moving closer to attaining his own.#19. The alpha male isn't a sucker. He isn't a clinger. He doesn't go out of his way to please everyone because that's a futile endeavor. He won't let a woman run his life. He's his own man. Though he worships the ground his lady walks on, he knows how to pick 'em. He won't be with a control-freak or a jealous woman. He has the social intelligence to see that storm before it peeks it's nasty little head.#20. The alpha male is a man of value. "Try not to become a man of success, but rather try to become a man of value." Einstein knew that success is reached if you're valuable to others. The alpha male is a man of value and values. He makes the lives of others better by being a part of them.#21. The alpha male helps others, he's generous. He has his purpose, but he knows that life isn't merely about accomplishments, but about leaving a legacy. That legacy is how he made others feel, and how he helps others accomplish their dreams.#22. The alpha male is a leader who leads by example. He doesn't tell people how to live, but lives in the manner he sees as best to live.#23. Alpha males throughout history, Achilles, William Wallace, and Napoleon, saw opportunity where others saw failure. The alpha male will fail, but he won't see failure as the end. He's sees it as a necessary part of the experience, a stepping-stone. Knowing this allows him to try things others won't, and to work harder when others usually quit.#24. The alpha male is stubborn. When he starts something he's passionate about, no one can stop him or pull back on the reigns. He's in it until the end. He's also open-minded and willing to listen to other points of view. He knows he's flawed and stubborn, so he gives way and learns from people who are better than him.#25. The alpha male doesn't try to be an alpha male. That's where so many fail. He is interested in life, in living. He's fascinated by the world around him, in becoming the best man he can possibly become. He genuinely cares about people. He passionately works hard. He's excited by life, by the opportunity that each day presents. He's genuine in every facet of who he is. Each of the characteristics are possessed by him naturally, or will be as he grows as a man. Bred from curiosity, a genuine kindness, and a warrior's heart, he is who he is, and all others follow him wherever he will lead them.#26 – The alpha male is absolutely honest and maintain it's own integrity in every situation.#27 – He is also tolerant and has enough social skills to deal with differences.#28 – He has initiative and start doing when people are still waiting and wondering.#29 – He knows the value of collaboration on complex issues.#30 – He never seeks approval. Instead, he is the one who give value to people.Reference : <a href="http://chadhowsefitness.com/2012/11/25-characteristics-of-an-alpha-male">http://chadhowsefitness.com/2012/11/25-characteristics-of-an-alpha-male</a>
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The Alpha Male

30 Characteristics of a Real Man 30 is the number of Manhood. At 30, a man should atleast attain this standard by merit not by trial. The Al...

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Africa's Youngest Billionaire

<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-jtIorX0tS04/VX6_trE9bpI/AAAAAAAAAII/hzljqIYx09A/s1600/%253D%253Futf-8%253FB%253FQkxPR0dFUkNISURJLmpwZw%253D%253D%253F%253D-773957"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_6160572131667963538" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-jtIorX0tS04/VX6_trE9bpI/AAAAAAAAAII/hzljqIYx09A/s320/%253D%253Futf-8%253FB%253FQkxPR0dFUkNISURJLmpwZw%253D%253D%253F%253D-773957" /></a>People who actually through their hardwork contribute positively to humanity do not make noise. This young man, Igho Charles Sanomi, is an inspiration especially to the Youths.
 He established his business, The Taleveras Group at age 29 ; at 38 he was enlisted by Forbes Magazine as the second, Africa's Youngest Billionaire and at 39, he was in the lead of the Top-100 Africa's Youngest Economic Leaders by choiseul-Africa-100.
 His philanthropy cuts across Africa from GIPLC, OxFam, Save The Child, Orphanage Homes, Bobby Moore Cancer Foundation and many more.
 He's especialise in ENERGY. He made his money through harwork not by inheritance.
 Without hardwork, nothing grows but weed. At 40, we wish him greater heights in life and its our desire that, you, our reader should be motivated by this giant stride of this Youth.
 Photo-credit : Igho Charles Sanomi II
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Africa's Youngest Billionaire

People who actually through their hardwork contribute positively to humanity do not make noise. This young man, Igho Charles Sanomi, is an i...

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Four Kinds of Ladies that Experiences Late Marriage

<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-bUqsFnd-gKc/VSmj6lMzK9I/AAAAAAAAAG0/D8WUrk3TXw8/s1600/ladies-798560.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_6136616194082548690" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-bUqsFnd-gKc/VSmj6lMzK9I/AAAAAAAAAG0/D8WUrk3TXw8/s320/ladies-798560.jpg" /></a><div dir="ltr"><div id="id_5529a15e9bc0e0512035288"><div>There are different habits that may hinder a lady from getting married. But here, am not going to talk about "Habits"of a lady but rather about "Kinds" of Ladies, that faces late marriage and most times, No Marriage. Below are the Four kinds of ladies that faces late marriage and the answers that works : 1. The Perfect Lady : Here, the Perfect Lady do not imply that the Lady herself is perfect. But rather, their expectation of their dream man is too high that they kept being selective on the type of man that they want. Most times, the person they love may not like them, and the person that likes them, may not be their love. Those Perfect Ladies always want»»», A Tall, Rich, Caring& Handsome man and if the lady is spiritual, she will be waiting for "God's Will". Anyman that misses any of the Four qualities ends up being rejected. Their Problem : The problem such ladies faces is that they end up loving the "Container" instead of the "Content". The Solution : Accommodate a man who posses atleast 50% of the qualities you desire, the rest will develop with love. 2. The Beautiful Lady : A beautiful lady is attractive to the eye. They are victims of multiple relationships. Most guys that dates beautiful ladies dates them for fun. The attractiveness of a Lady makes it difficult for her to keep herself for a man. This is because of temptation from men, knocking left, right and centre. Their Problem : The problem beautiful ladies faces is that no one really loves them for who they are but likes their beauty period. And men doubts their ability to make a good home. This poses a threat for them to marry cos most men considers a beautiful lady as a flirt. The Solution : Have a picture of the kind of man you really want to marry. You are lucky that yua beautiful, because you will get proposals from various kinds of men; so be ready to identify that man whom you like to marry. Be loyal to him. He will be proud to marry you. 3. The Rich-man's daughter : The rich man's daughter bask on the euphoria of her father's wealth. As far as she's concern, her father is her hero and no man can replace her fathers love and care. She believes that every man that is running after her is after her fathers wealth. So this makes them unattractive to men. Men are naturally proud and will not like to muddle their hard earned reputation on such an insult. Their Problem : Most rich men's daughter marry late or marry the wrong man. The Solution : The Humility of a rich man's daughter is her greatest weapon to attract men. Men will naturally be drawn to you, if you are humble. Your beauty is secondary. The Career Woman : These ladies are hardworking, ambitious and successful in life. They may be feminist. They are the champions of this saying, "What a man can do, a woman can even do it better". Marriage is not their headache but career. Their Problem : The problem of career women is time management. They run everything in life like business even relationship. Secondly, they always want to be the Boss in all things and this poses a threat to men. The more masculine a lady behaves, the less attractive she is to a man. No man wants to marry another man. The Solution : Every Career woman, cries in her closet. She prays for a man who will love and treat her like a woman. Your cry is over, woman! Simply be submissive atleast to a man. Avoid arguments with him. And be More feminine in your outlook. These are what you need to make a man , marry you. Hello Ladies!...I believe I have given answers to your pressing needs! Thanks for reading. Written by : Chidon Qozar. </div></div></div>

Four Kinds of Ladies that Experiences Late Marriage

There are different habits that may hinder a lady from getting married. But here, am not going to talk about "Habits"of a lady bu...

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